Best analogy of my life!
I was talking to a friend this morning and I outdid myself.
I was saying how you need to make sure you have a life together and a life of your own.
So I said that if you both paddle together with the same rythm you move forward at the same speed.
If you are out of psync you will no doubt just capsize.
If one of you is paddling or paddling more than the other you are just going to go round and round in circles.
I impressed myself….I think for once I made my point clearly!